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PLUS: The Tastiest Baked Oatmeal
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Welcome To The Most Read Womenās Empowerment Newsletter!
Today On the Menu:
š©āš Today In Womenās History: Elaine Yoneda
š The Health Corner: The Yummiest Baked Oatmeal There Is
š§ Self Improvement: Self Care Is Not Selfish
Read Time: 3 Mins
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On This Today In Womenās History:
September 4, 1906:
Elaine Yoneda was born.
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Elaine Yoneda, a Communist labor organizer with the International Longshoremanās Union, argued for free day care for women and equal pay for equal work in 1930s. She was born today in 1906
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THE YUMMIEST BAKED OATMEAL EVER
š Live Well Now Approved
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You Will Need:
1 ripe banana, mashed (Ā½ cup)
1 cup unsweetened almond milk, at room temperature
Ā¼ cup smooth almond butter
Ā¼ cup maple syrup
Ā¼ cup melted coconut oil
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon cinnamon
Ā½ teaspoon sea salt
2 cups whole rolled oats
1 cup chopped pecans
1 cup blueberries, fresh or frozen
2 tablespoons brown sugar, for topping
2 tablespoons coconut flakes, for topping
Directions:
1. Preheat the oven to 350Ā°F and grease an 8x8-inch or similar baking dish.
2. In a large bowl, whisk together the mashed banana, almond milk, almond butter, maple syrup, and coconut oil. Add the baking powder, cinnamon, and salt and whisk again.
3. Fold in the oats, Ā¾ cup of the pecans, and Ā½ cup of the blueberries. Pour the mixture into the prepared baking dish and smooth into an even layer.
4. Top with the remaining Ā½ cup blueberries, the remaining Ā¼ cup pecans, the brown sugar, and coconut flakes.
5. Bake for 40 to 50 minutes, or until the topping is crisp and the middle is set. Remove from the oven and let cool for 10 minutes before serving.
You donāt have to play masculine to be a strong woman.
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Self Care Is Not Selfish: Here Is Why
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As women over 40, we often find ourselves juggling multiple roles and responsibilities, from caring for our families to excelling in our careers. It's easy to overlook our own needs in the midst of it all, but here are three important reasons why self-care is far from selfish:
Recharging Your Batteries: Just like a car needs fuel to keep running smoothly, we need self-care to replenish our physical, emotional, and mental energy. Taking time for yourself allows you to be at your best for your loved ones and your endeavors.
Mental and Emotional Well-being: Self-care isn't a luxury; it's a necessity for maintaining our mental and emotional health. Whether it's through meditation, a long bath, or simply reading a good book, taking care of our emotional well-being helps us handle life's challenges with grace and resilience.
Setting a Healthy Example: By prioritizing self-care, we not only benefit ourselves but also set a positive example for those around us, especially younger generations. Showing that it's okay to care for oneself teaches important life lessons about self-worth and balance.
Remember, self-care is a form of self-love, and when we love and care for ourselves, we have more love and care to give to others.
So go ahead, indulge in that spa day, take that solo vacation, or simply spend some quiet moments with a cup of tea.
You deserve it, and it's anything but selfish.
Until tomorrow,
Live Well Now Team
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